The Lighthouse Sessions
The lighthouse exists for the final and most critical stretch of the journey. It’s when the water is unfamiliar, the stakes are highest, and one wrong turn costs more than you can afford.
When a foster care case shifts toward adoption, everything changes at once. Emotions rise. Deadlines appear. Paperwork increases. And suddenly you are making permanent decisions that will affect your child's benefits, services, and long-term stability, often without being told what questions to ask before you sign.
When we adopted our last child, we learned that therapy could have been covered for a full year. We had already adopted three children before that and were never told. We also learned how subsidies can be deferred if a child does not qualify at the time of adoption. These details matter. The Lighthouse Session is designed so that families know what to ask before it is too late.
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I bring a perspective to this program that most adoption consultants cannot. I am not just someone who has navigated the adoption process as a parent. I am an adoptee. I know what it feels like to be the child in this story and how that shapes everything.
What We Cover
Understanding adoption subsidies and how they are determined
What benefits continue after finalization and which may not
Medicaid and private insurance considerations
Therapy and post-adoption service options
Questions to ask before signing final paperwork
Court preparation and what to expect on finalization day
First 30 days post-finalization support
Deferred subsidy and what to do if your child does not qualify now but may qualify later
How to talk to your child about their adoption story, from the perspective of someone who lived it as an adoptee
Understanding your child's grief after finalization and why joy and loss can exist in the same moment
Building your child's storybook and keeping their story honest, age-appropriate, and theirs
What Is Included
2 private sessions via Zoom plus one follow up session
Targeted handouts and question templates to bring into caseworker and attorney meetings
Clear next-step planning before and after finalization
All adopting families also receive a special gift from me
Handouts included with your sessions
Your Child's Grief After Finalization
When Joy and Grief Live Together
Building the Storybook
Talking to Your Child About Adoption
Adoption Benefits by State
Investment: $800
Adoption through foster care comes with permanent decisions and not every family is clearly informed about the services and benefits their child may be entitled to. This session is designed to change that.
Disclaimer: The Lighthouse Session is designed to help families understand adoption subsidies, benefits, and the finalization process from an educational and advocacy perspective. It does not constitute legal advice under the laws of any state. Adoption subsidy eligibility, benefit availability, and legal finalization processes vary significantly by state, county, and individual case. Families are strongly encouraged to consult with a qualified adoption attorney licensed in their state before signing any finalization documents.